2011: A Year In Review

It's that time again...to see what went down in 2011.  I always enjoy reading my answers from the year before.

1. What did you do in 2011 that you’d never done before?



I went on my very first cruise.  And it was everything that Brian and I had hoped that it would be:  the most relaxing and fun vacation that we have ever taken!  It's become an inside joke, when things get hectic one of us will sigh and say "I miss Josh."  "Josh" was the cruise director, and responsible for our fun for four days.  It was a trip without kids, and it was awesome.  Someday we'd like to do a cruise WITH the kids too, when they're a little older.

2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?


I really don't "do" New Years Resolutions.  However, in 2012 I will be starting the "Day Zero Project..."  which is like a list of things that you want to accomplish in 1,001 days.

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?


Good Lord, who didn't?  It was the year of babies, with friends and family having children.  Plus, my beautiful niece Abby was born in November.  So excited for my brother and his wife, and thrilled to have a girl in the family to knit for!

4. Did anyone close to you die?  

My uncle passed away unexpectedly in May.  He was my Dad's older brother.


5. What countries/places did you visit?


Our cruise took us to Saint John New Brunswick, Canada.  I had never been there before and it was a nice little city.  I was especially happy to be there at the time that we were, there was a horrific heatwave going on at home and it was a balmy seventy-five degrees in Saint John!


6. What would you like to have in 2012 that you lacked in 2011?

  Sanity! Just kidding.....  2011 was a tough year in some ways, but we are all healthy, have plenty of food and a roof over our heads.  We're both employed and have many other things that lots of people out there don't have.  So I feel blessed.

7. What dates from 2011 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?

I don't remember any of the exact dates, but this year's weather has been particularly noteworthy.  First, the winter brought heavy wet snow once or twice a week.  Then in June, there was a tornado.  A pretty big tornado that devastated cities and towns to the west of us, and got into Central MA.  Then it was followed by a hurricane at the end of the summer, a HURRICANE!  We got a bit of rain damage on that one in our bathroom, rain was blowing into the house vent and it ruined our ceiling.  Again, the cities and towns to the west of us, who hadn't recovered yet from the tornado, got dumped on once again.  And just to keep things interesting, a freak snowstorm the last weekend of October!  Halloween was certainly interesting this year.  Many people were without power around us for up to a week, we hosted friends and families for food, showers, recharging devices, etc.  We were very, very lucky through all of this, never losing power more than a couple of hours.  Based on the year that  it has been weather-wise, I don't dare ask what Mother Nature has up her sleeve.  Or question her mood.  :)


8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?


I managed to work three jobs at once.  I worked at my current building while running applications at the new building, plus did some coverage at yet another building.  It was a ridiculously busy November and December, but when I am sitting in my new office next March, it will be all worth it.


9. What was your biggest failure?

Not taking care of myself better.  I tend to do for everyone, and forget to take care of me.  I really need to work on that.  Plus, I tend to take on too much personally and professionally, and not realize until I'm in the thick of it.


10. Did you suffer illness or injury?


It's been a good year. (knocking on wood right now!) No trips to the hospital, nothing crazy to get the doctor's opinion on!  Some antibiotics in our household, but nothing serious.  We are very, very lucky!  Especially with our daredevil younger son!


11. What was the best thing you bought?

The best thing that we bought was time and memories with the boys.  We took them to a couple of children's museums, parks, and shows.  We went to PA to visit Grandmom and Grandpop.  Best money spent:  going places with the kids.


12. Whose behavior merited celebration?
All of those Secret Santas that paid off people's Walmart and Kmart layaways this year for kids' Christmases.  I loved, loved, loved those stories!


13. Whose behavior made you appalled and depressed?

Crazy Black Friday shoppers.  I mean really....is a video game system for your kid worth your life?? Do you really need to bring pepper spray?  This is why I stay home on Black Friday.  No deal is worth it to me to get trampled, shuffled or pushed around.


14. Where did most of your money go?


Bills, bills bills.  Same place they always go.  BUT we did pay off my husband's car and get our driveway re-done in anticipation of putting the house on the market in the next year or so.  A little bit at a time, we'll get there.

15. What did you get really, really, really excited about?


Hmmm.  Well, not to sound repetitive, but Brian and I really got excited about a vacation without kids.  Four days of just us, enjoying the hell out of everything that a cruise has to offer.

16. What song will always remind you of 2011?
Sadly, nothing comes to mind.

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:


a) happier or sadder? I've been some of both this year. Some times have been harder than others. But I've always been a "glass half-full" kind of girl and I've got lots of blessings to count.  (I liked this answer so much from last year that I decided to keep it.)


b) thinner or fatter? about the same.  but I feel really good about myself and NOT putting on more weight during some pretty stressful times.
c) richer or poorer? Richer in some ways....poorer in others. I'm rich where it matters...in love and family.

18. What do you wish you’d done more of?


Living in the moment. Relishing life's simple pleasures.  Saying yes more.


19. What do you wish you’d done less of?


Multi-tasking.  Worrying.


20. How did you spend Christmas?

With my family, having a simple dinner, eating lots of cookies and watching the kids play.


21. Did you fall in love in 2011?


I fall in love a little bit more each and every day.


22. What was your favorite TV program?


I enjoyed True Blood this past summer, and the usual primetime dramas that Brian and I watch.  And I got a bit more into the Food Network.  Brian, Will and I really enjoy "Chopped."


23. Do you hate anyone now that you didn’t hate this time last year?


I make it a point not to hate anyone. There's people that annoy me or I dislike, but hate's a pretty strong word. (yes it's last year's answer, but it still applies!)


24. What was the best book you read?

I didn't read nearly as much this year, and honestly, I don't know if I can pick a "favorite."


25. What was your greatest musical discovery?
Nothing, really.


26. What did you want and get?
I got to start accepting applications for my new elderly apartment complex!  2012 will see me in my new office and out of family housing for good!!!


27. What did you want and not get?

More time to knit.  But there's never enough of that.  :)

28. What was your favorite film of this year?

Hmmmm.  I went to see Bridesmaids and Breaking Dawn in theaters this year.  And Brian and I spent my birthday playing hooky, going out to lunch by ourselves and getting a Redbox movie.  So there you have it....my favorite movie was "Friends with Benefits," for the sheer reason that we got to watch it at home, uninterrupted.  :)


29. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?

See above for birthday plans, and add "finished Christmas shopping."  Plus, the day before, Brian cooked a Chicken and Eggplant Parmesan feast, and made chocolate cream cupcakes and my whole family came over!    I dreaded turning 35 this year.  Once it happened though, I was OK with it.  What's with the anticipation???


30. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?

Not worrying so much about money or childcare.  Comes with the territory, I guess.


31. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2009?

Thrown together and harried. My personal sense of style is a bit stunted.  I'm trying to break out of my "comfortable" colors of purple and dark pink, and trying different colors.


32. What kept you sane?

my yarn stash, and knitting my way through it.  Teaching myself new tricks involving needles and yarn.  I knit 12 MILES worth of yarn this year.  That is just crazy.


33. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
None of 'em.....so over it.


34. What political issue stirred you the most?

I don't know if I'd say I was "stirred" over them....but the ones that I will remember the most are the "Occupy" protests all over the country, and the quiet end of the war in Iraq.


35. Who did you miss?

The people I missed most are the ones far away.  My friends Jen and Heather, Jen is in Illinois and Heather is in Florida.  Heather is pregnant with her first child and I so wish I could see her.  I'm planning a solo trip to see her in early 2012 when Baby Girl is born!


36. Who was the best new person you met?

I've made some new friends in my knitting group, and gotten to know others better.



37. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2011:


It's important to look up once in a while and assess the situation.  It's equally important to recognize when you've taken on too much, and either let go of some things or learn to delegate.  Also, take good care of yourself, you deserve it.


38. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

"You can't live your life, in the baby seat.  You've got to stand on your own, don't admit defeat."
Barenaked Ladies, "Baby Seat."

A Boy and his Dog

Just last week, Will and I were talking about dogs. Specifically, it was about how much dogs love to be petted.  I remarked that our dog Joey was certainly no exception, that is his favorite thing in the world.  Joey loves nothing more than idle hands in a free lap, and plenty of snuggles.  Will said, " Well why doesn't he ever want to be in my lap?  I'd love to snuggle and pet him.

Joey must have heard, because the photo is the 2 of them in the car on monday, headed to my parents to celebrate Christmas.  Either that, or he just wanted a little piece of Will's fleece blanket!

Yeah, I wear hats now.

I used to be such a priss about hat-wearing in the winter time.  I grew up in New England, I mean, c'mon, it's cold enough here for hats a good part of the year.  As a kid, I'd take it off, because I was "too cool" and apparently hat-wearing was a sign of weakness here in the Bay State.

Well, those days are over.  I am a dork, a weakling and most of all, a hypocrite.  Especially when it comes to my own knitted hats!  The older I get, the colder I get in the winter.  So there.  I wear hats now.  And I'm proud of it.  :)

100 Things in 1,001 Days

I'm not one for making New Year's Resolutions.  They always seem to be the same thing....things that you feel like you HAVE to do.  "Lose weight."  "Stop Smoking."  "Join a Gym."  Blah.  

Recently though,  I heard about this curious thing called the Day Zero Project.  Or perhaps its better-known name, "100 Things in 1,001 days."

Here's what it entails:  the participant makes a list of 100 things that he/she would like to accomplish in the next 1,001 days.  (roughly three years)  You can put anything on your list:  self-improvement items, volunteering, silly stuff...but it has to  be clearly defined so when it is finished you get to cross it off.

I took over a week to write mine, and I made it hit a lot of categories.  There are books that I've always wanted to read, parties I've wanted to throw, places to visit with the boys, etc etc etc.  I also asked my husband for some input (since he is my biggest motivator/cheerleader), and borrowed some ideas from other people's lists.  

Here is my list:  Due Date September 28, 2014. I won't blog about every single one, but have created a separate page so people who are interested can click on the tabs above to see what I've accomplished.  Now.....just have to pick out the first one and get moving!  Care to join me in making your own, or have your own going already?  Leave me a comment so I can make sure to follow you!  

100 Things in 1,001 Days

1.  Read "Anna Karennina" by Leo Tolstoy

2.  Rent a dumpster and clean out the basement

3.  See Les Miserables

4.  plan a family trip to Disney World

5.  perfect macaroni and cheese from scratch

6.  learn colorwork in knitting that’s not just stripes

7.  send a box of handmade baby items to Stitches from the Heart every six months

8.  take a sewing class

9.  plan a better vegetable garden

10.  go away for a weekend to a bed and breakfast

11.  visit three new restaurants in Central MA

12.  take the kids to the following places in PA:  Sesame Place, Crayola Factory and the “Please Touch” Museum.

13.  organize all of the photos into albums

14.  make a donation to a food pantry every quarter

15.  get our wedding video transferred to a DVD copy

16.  Participate in the “Ravelympics” and Go For the GOLD!!!

17.  Participate in NaBloPoMo once.

18.  Give up subscriptions to womens’ magazines

19.  Practice three acts of random kindness

20.  Trade in old, faded purse for something new and swanky

21.  Fold a paper airplane

22.  Read the Harry Potter series

23.  Drive a convertible

24.  try yoga

25.  give a 100% tip

26.  start a charm bracelet

27.  take a cake decorating class

28.  let the boys splash and play in puddles

29.  take the boys to their first drive-in movie

30.  go kayaking

31.  Attend a state fair

32.  Write a love letter to my husband

33.  Try a new hairstyle

34.  Get pictures done in a photo booth

35.  Get a tattoo

36.  Picnic in a park

37.   Ride in a hot air balloon

38.  Buy a lottery ticket

39.  Go ice skating

40.  Watch 5 classic movies

41.  Plant flower boxes

42.  take a “knife skills” cooking class

43.  Build a sandcastle with the boys

44.  build a snowman with the boys

45.  go tent camping

46.  Floss every day for a month

47.  Start taking a multivitamin and continue for a month

48.  Be part of a cookie exchange party

49.  Watch 5 movies from the American Film Institute’s Top 100 list

50.  See a Flyers home game with Brian.

51.  Send a secret to Postsecret

52.  Go to the beach once every summer

53.  Successfully knit a pair of socks.

54.  Mow the lawn myself

55.  send flowers to someone “just because”

56.  learn how to play either Gin or Rummy

57.  visit the Ben and Jerry’s factory in Burlington, VT

58.  Make Baked Alaska

59.  Eat at a Spanish restaurant and speak no English while there.

60.  spend a day in Northampton with just my Mom.

61.  write a short story

62.  use the snowblower by myself

63.  learn how to throw a football with my kids

64.  Play flashlight tag outdoors

65.  Have a yard sale

66.  Dye yarn again with my friends

67.  make lemonade from scratch

68.  bake homemade cinnamon rolls

69.  write the boys letters each year for their birthdays

70.  read all of my old diaries

71.  Make four different kinds of soup from scratch that I have never tried to make before.

72.  Put our house on the market.

73.  Switch banks

74.  Cash in our change jar.

75.  Bake fresh bread, not in a bread machine

76.  Ask my parents to tell stories of our family’s past, and write them down.

77.  Renew our passports

78.  Visit three local yarn shops that I have never been to.

79.  Replace the kitchen trash can with a fancy “Simple Human” one.

80.  Open “Joy of Cooking” to a random page and make something on that page.

81.  get black and white photos taken of our family.

82.  write a fan letter/email

83.  Knit sweaters for my husband and children

84.  Repaint my front door

85.  treat myself to a spa day

86.  take part in a  yarnbombing project

87.  Finish up paperwork to close BVWA

88.  let the boys have a sleepover

89.  Donate supplies to the shelter that we adopted Joey from, once a year.

90.  Give up soda for a month

91.  Go through all of our cookbooks, get rid of some that we aren’t using to make room for new ones

92.  take the boys to a baseball game

93.  go snow tubing

94.  clean out my bedroom closet

95.  donate blood

96.  Host a dessert party

97.  complete a crossword

98.  play every board game that we own, get rid of the ones that we no longer enjoy

99.  Visit Washington, D.C.

100.   Put $5 in our savings account for every item not completed. 

What'd you get for Christmas??

So, what did you get for Christmas?  I'm not talking gifts....I'm talking memories, experiences.

For our holidays, I experienced....

...the excitement of a five-year-old in waiting for Santa!  Though he had to be ROUSED from his bed at 8am, the first sleepy question that we got was "Did Santa come?"  Once he heard the answer he was alllll about jumping out of bed and checking out the scene.  But...roused?  I still find that hard to believe.  But it's true.

......the "whatever" factor of an almost-two year old.  Sean, teething still, wasn't really interested in much of it.  Once you open one gift, he's interested in just that.  So his gifts got opened slowly as the day went on.  Plus, there's really no such thing as "into it" until breakfast has been consumed.

.....the power of overwhelming a kid.  Gift-opening, playing with lots of new things, getting dressed up, running around, skyping with Grandmom and Grandpop, more gifts, visits from Nana and Papa, dinner, no nap, lots of cookies....  They get so excited, and it's a little hard to keep them going.  There were some tears and tantrums, but all in all it was a great day.  Gentle words and understanding went a long way yesterday!

......that my husband, though I already knew this, cooks a MEAN roast.  Lord, I love roast beef and mashed potatoes.

........that if some things don't get done, you don't miss them.  I insisted that we had to bake up the sugar cookies on Christmas morning so that we could decorate them as a family event.  It was a lot of fun the previous year, frosting them before dinner as a way to keep Will occupied.  Anddd....we forgot to do them, after all that baking.  Oh well.  Something to do tomorrow when I'm home with the boys!

Hope your holidays were fun and full of memories.  :)

Christmas Knitting: 2011

Christmas has come and gone, and (most) things have been put away.  There's still leftovers in the fridge, and it's time to tell you, Dear Reader, about all of the lurrrrvely things that I knit for Christmas gifts.

Mom:  Saroyan shawlette

Dad:  Irish Hiking Scarf

Nancy:  Cabled scarflet.  My mom made her the hat, which matched nicely with my scarf!

Kim:  Old Shale Scarf

Brian:  Dudester scarf.  He is hard to knit a scarf for, I learned.  That is because he is over six feet tall....it required a LOT of yarn!

I also knit a little cotton cardigan for Abby but I can't locate a picture of it.  And I know that I took one!  Rest assured, it's really cute, in a  "seaspray" blue and will look great on her in the spring.  Perhaps I'll post pictures then.

Yes, I did notice that there are no hand-knits for Hubby or the boys....this is because I had a major FAIL in sizing for Hubby's Hat.  And I did start some stuffed monsters for the boys, but didn't get them finished in time.  So now they're going to be a "just because" gift on a gloomy winter day.  Which, I think, sounds even better.  :)

Christmas Eve Snuggles

Snugglin' with Sean...taking a break from wrappin', bakin', cleanin' and otherwise preparin'.  Merry Christmas from our family to yours!